tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post4409006739763064818..comments2024-03-28T09:19:51.567-04:00Comments on Look Me In The Eye: Asperger support groups and a special bonus feature: turtle managementJohn Robisonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07407165016025447113noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-12320633277041206312018-07-31T00:52:09.805-04:002018-07-31T00:52:09.805-04:00We’d use nail polish, a different color each year,...We’d use nail polish, a different color each year, and we’d paint a sequential number on each turtle we caught. But they were box turtles or painted turtles, not snappers.dessertschickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12361648559599495416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-7695491717750572332007-08-14T21:02:00.000-04:002007-08-14T21:02:00.000-04:00John, I was glad to hear that you had a chance to ...John, I was glad to hear that you had a chance to enjoy hanging out with other autistic spectrum people. I like AANE's mission to foster respect, acceptance and support. <BR/><BR/>I think attending a group with autistic adults is very different from attending a group as a child, since groups for kids are more like "interventions."Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11578123223843089702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-47675928680240684952007-08-14T08:13:00.000-04:002007-08-14T08:13:00.000-04:00Holly, you just never know. Especially with this ...Holly, you just never know. Especially with this global warming. One day you Canadians may awaken to hordes of turtles, migrating north from the overheated United States.John Robisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407165016025447113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-55394318454087321882007-08-14T08:12:00.000-04:002007-08-14T08:12:00.000-04:00Effective alligator management calls for more than...Effective alligator management calls for more than just a snow shovel. First of all, most alligators - even sewer gators - are too long for the shovel. Second, they can lunge and place your forward shovel hand at risk.<BR/><BR/>Duct tape is required to secure the mouth before movement is attempted.John Robisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407165016025447113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-9752009861799877832007-08-14T07:50:00.000-04:002007-08-14T07:50:00.000-04:00While we city-dwellers may not have to deal with r...While we city-dwellers may not have to deal with rampaging hordes of turtle, we do have the odd alligator coming out of our sewers and toilets. Perhaps your de-turtling methods are applicable to all sorts of snapping reptiles? I'm going to start keeping a snow shovel in the bathroom. Might come in awfully handy one day!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-12740597329508105402007-08-13T00:49:00.000-04:002007-08-13T00:49:00.000-04:00I loved your turtle control pointers, John.I've ne...I loved your turtle <BR/>control pointers, John.<BR/><BR/>I've never had a turtle encounter.<BR/><BR/>A bear, yes. Ditto with raccoons and skunks and deer eating my flowers, but no turtles.Holly Kennedyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02336717023482533615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-79595974745593115492007-08-12T21:13:00.000-04:002007-08-12T21:13:00.000-04:00It was an honor to be at the group and to meet Joh...It was an honor to be at the group and to meet John. I really found the individuals inspiring. I really liked hearing about John's previous stories about how children with autism wouldn't find him threatening as he might be able to understand them better. It was inspiring.<BR/><BR/>I found the turtle story to be interesting as I live on a wetland. While we don't see turtles that often, they patron us occasionally. My grandmother has a broom that she used and the turtle bit down on the straw part of the broom and she flung the thing in the air. It was pretty funny. We just saw a snake the other day (probably just a garden snake). <BR/><BR/>I like meeting new people but I never seem to understand why it never becomes a real friendship instead of some very rare instances. I really appreciated his advice as it was inspiring. I hope to meet him again. <BR/><BR/>I really like being able to have individuals of all ages there so I could learn from them. <BR/><BR/>Take care of yourself. I hope you get on the bestseller list.StockWatcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03527859333206972269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-64943727519133874772007-08-12T19:29:00.000-04:002007-08-12T19:29:00.000-04:00The support group sounds very nice, and I agree, a...The support group sounds very nice, and I agree, any mom of an Asperger's child would find you inspiring! <BR/><BR/>I don't think we have snapping turtles out here. At least not in the creek. I think they like still water. As a kid, I had a pet duckling that lost part of her foot to a snapper. We brought her to our vet, who kept her in the small pond behind her house, so little "Webby" swam around in circles with her one foot.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15397166252681075107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-67153294165879557022007-08-12T19:22:00.000-04:002007-08-12T19:22:00.000-04:00Our snappers stay across the street near the river...Our snappers stay across the street near the river, where they belong. <BR/><BR/>I guess they're quicker than the bunnies and squirrels, because they don't get hit by cars.<BR/><BR/>It's nice that you can interact comfortably with people in a similar situation. I'm glad you went.Sandra Cormierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00231342310371529022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-59329962033414360422007-08-12T19:15:00.000-04:002007-08-12T19:15:00.000-04:00Polly said: "Hey Tena, did you tell your indie boo...Polly said: "Hey Tena, did you tell your indie bookseller about John's illustrious porn career? That might stimulate further interest."<BR/><BR/>Oh right, the Aspergian Porno King. I'll be sure to tell them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-47664379928373922122007-08-12T17:34:00.000-04:002007-08-12T17:34:00.000-04:00Hey John. Turtles, snakes, skunks, coons, o'posso...Hey John. Turtles, snakes, skunks, coons, o'possoms, spiders, crawfish, love them all. Very frustrating to have spawned two boys who won't touch the darn things. They have no idea how much fun they're missing. Good thing they are all over hijacking the backhoe we have here since we're having an extension put on the house. Since I figured out how to lift the outriggers I haven't been able to keep my hands off it. So there is hope for the spawnlings yet.<BR/><BR/>Hey Tena, did you tell your indie bookseller about John's illustrious porn career? That might stimulate further interest.Polly Kahlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08144327981127333878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-2921168242211642172007-08-12T14:41:00.000-04:002007-08-12T14:41:00.000-04:00Oops, try again. That meeting sounds terrific. I h...Oops, try again. That meeting sounds terrific. I have a young woman friend in town with Aspergers - I hope to bring her to your signing in CT.<BR/><BR/>As the for turtle? I just might have found my career. I'll create turtle marking stencils! Hearts, Nascar numbers, I'll be rich, rich, rich!! I like turtles, although I rarely approach them. I do swerve around them on the road though.Kim Rossi Staglianohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17687828526726281119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-32672901895084111902007-08-12T14:38:00.000-04:002007-08-12T14:38:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Kim Rossi Staglianohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17687828526726281119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-67404430110374993442007-08-12T14:22:00.000-04:002007-08-12T14:22:00.000-04:00Oh, the pesky turtle issue... Loved your post. Mi...Oh, the pesky turtle issue... Loved your post. <BR/><BR/>Michael Forbes Wilcox wonders about the term Asbergian, as do I. Did you coin the phrase, John? In our family (which includes at least one such member and possibly two) we call it Aspie. <BR/><BR/>Other: I was in my local indie bookseller in a suburb of Chicago. This store does a terrific business and has author events almost daily, also luncheon events at a club in Chicago. I had come in the store to see if they'd ordered your book (yes), but they didn't know anything about YOU so I gave them an earful. Of course I had to make up a bunch of good stuff. They are very interested in arranging a visit with you. I believe my friend at the store will call your publicist. If you want to talk about this, please email me at inherwritemind1@aol.com and I'll tell you more. I would LOVE for you to come to Chicago. <BR/><BR/>Sorry to be so long-winded here but I didn't find an email address for you.<BR/><BR/>Woof!Tena Russhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08630397939303203418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-76391432100278376632007-08-12T13:40:00.000-04:002007-08-12T13:40:00.000-04:00Turtles! I had no idea that they could be such a p...Turtles! I had no idea that they could be such a problem!<BR/><BR/>That does sound like a great meeting you had. [and inspiring for the rest of us]<BR/><BR/>As an aside [off topic and none of my business anyway] I was wondering if you could find the time to describe your sense of humour / what you find funny / why? Or do we just have to wait for the book?<BR/><BR/>Best wishesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-42522043871047585452007-08-12T13:21:00.000-04:002007-08-12T13:21:00.000-04:00John, as the "older man" in the room, I can say I ...John, as the "older man" in the room, I can say I shared many of your feelings -- about seeing myself in the younger people. <BR/><BR/>It was great to meet you, and I do hope you'll continue to attend -- I've been to 4 or 5 of the meetings so far, and they have gotten more comfortable each time. <I>There's something slightly oxymoronic about Aspies socializing.</I><BR/><BR/>As I mentioned to you, I'd never heard the term "Aspergian" -- did you make that up? -- but I do prefer it to "Aspie" which is affectionate but perhaps somewhat too cutesy (especially at my age). So, thanks for that addition to my vocabulary.<BR/><BR/>Talking with you and reading your website and blog have encouraged me to put more energy into my own writing. As I mentioned to you, I have set out to tell my story, much in the way you have, though of course my life and my style of telling about it will be very different. Still, the basic message will be the same, I hope -- that AS is a "different way of being" and need not be an impediment to a successful and happy life, despite the many bumps along the way. I've experienced much heartache in my life, but I remain optimistic, and committed to continually improving my lot. <BR/><BR/>I very much look forward to future conversations.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-24461540384705169852007-08-12T13:01:00.000-04:002007-08-12T13:01:00.000-04:00Your elaboration on turtle handling is most welcom...Your elaboration on turtle handling is most welcome. I can see you're a veteran of turtle encounters, yourself.<BR/><BR/>I didn't really have a chance to talk much about my past at the meeting because the talk was mostly centered on present day issues.John Robisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07407165016025447113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5751271189667675662.post-34160436360318755772007-08-12T12:26:00.000-04:002007-08-12T12:26:00.000-04:00Those snappers can be nasty beasts, and they move ...Those snappers can be nasty beasts, and they move fast too. We saw a lot of them, growing up playing in the Green River. They can stick their necks out pretty far so watch those fingers. They don't have teeth but can snap your fingers off with their jaws. Push it into a container with a stick. Or slide your hand under it and hold it steady by the tail. It can't reach your hand underneath, and it can't reach its tail. Don't carry it by the tail or you can hurt it, and don't hold it by the sides unless your fingers are replaceable.<BR/><BR/>That meeting sounds great. How cool to see Aspies of all ages, and be able to think about where you came from and where you're going. I bet if you tell those young guys about your work with all the rock & rollers, they won't think you're such an old fart anymore.<BR/><BR/>Always have such fun reading your blogs, John.Polly Kahlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08144327981127333878noreply@blogger.com