Transitions
What do you do, when you reach the end of your last year of
high school?
For most Americans, these are the options:
- You can continue your education at college;
- You can take up a trade, either by attending trade school or by becoming an apprentice;
- You can get a job;
- You can join the service;
- You can hit the road;
- You may able to barricade yourself in your parentsā basement;
- You can go to jail.
The rest of your life will be strongly influenced by this
decision. Contrary to what some people
say, there is no universal answer. Itās
imperative that you make the choice thatās optimal for you.
In the education world, this process is called transition,
and itās the focus of several conferences where Iāll be appearing this spring
and fall.
For the past decade or two, parents, teachers and counselors
have pushed college as the best answer for any kid who had a shot at
admission. They cite statistics that
show how much more college graduates earn, and how much better the jobs they
get will be.
Persuasive as that argument sounds, college is not the best
choice for everyone. One of the most
overlooked choices is the trades.
Originally, āthe tradesā meant becoming a skilled blue-collar worker ā a
carpenter, electrician, plumber, machinist or mechanic.
Today the range of trade jobs has expanded quite a bit with
the proliferation of high-tech in medicine, mining, and everywhere else work
takes place. All that high-tech gear
needs to be set up, operated, and kept in working order. At the same time, there is still opportunity
in traditional lower-tech trades, like forestry or landscaping.
All those trade jobs offer the possibility of good wages for
the workers, and many have the added benefit that a skilled worker can become a
small business owner. Business ownership
remains one of the surest paths to riches in our society; small business owners
as a group are significantly more affluent than workers in jobs, no matter what
level of education they have.
Even those ālow paying service jobsā that pundits love to denigrate
can offer opportunity. Many chefs and
restaurant owners came up from the ranks of cooks and servers. For countless others, basic service jobs
provided needed income while the worker was on a path to something different.
No matter how you feel about our government and foreign
policy, the armed forces have been a lifesaver for countless young people. The GI Bill sent a whole generation to
college. For others, the Army was hell
on earth. So itās not for everyone. Opinions in the autism community seem sharply
polarized.
The remaining options ā hitting the road, riding the rails,
holing up in momās basement, or going to jail . . . . most would agree those
are undesirable. Iāll talk about how you
can avoid those outcomes.
The principal point is ā college is not the only good
option. Indeed, for many, it is not the best
option at all. Other paths can be
richer, more rewarding, and worthy of respect and consideration.
Iāll be talking about transition and my own story at two
important conferences this spring.
The first is next Thursday, February 9, at the Kalahari
Resort in Wisconsin Dells, WI. You can
register for that conference here
The second is Saturday, March 3rd at Grace Evangelical Church in Fayetteville,
Georgia. Fayetteville is southeast of
Atlanta. Register for that conference here
Comments
I'm one of the organizers for the Georgia conference. We're not planning on creating transcripts or simulcasting the conference anywhere. In actuality, the whole conference was because two moms of kids with Asperger's/Autism were ultra-motivated to make it happen for our community. You could too - just takes a lot of "gumption".
I agree with Rich -find out what you're child's interests are, and capitalize on that. You'll have to navigate the waters yourself to find the right niche, but don't forget to include him in the journey - self independence is a wonderful thing. If you're on facebook, come join the ongoing conversations on the "College Bound Conference" page and the "GA Post-Secondary Opportunities for People with Intellectual Disabilities" group. Between the two spaces on facebook, we'll figure out some kind of path for folks to take.
I took my hobby of messing around with computers and turned it into a great career. I'm about to start a second 'side' career with another hobby- messing around with sound. And who knows- perhaps I'll create a third stream with my other hobby- writing.
Doing what you truly love is the key. And understanding your own mind- which, as a fellow Aspie can be a bit of a trick. But I've parlayed my own peculiar gifts into a job that I love. Isn't that the goal?