|The James River shoreline, near Williamsburg, VA (c) John Elder Robison|
Autism is a neurological difference that’s associated with some gifts and a great many disabilities. For a person to be diagnosed on the autism spectrum, they must have significant impairments as a result of autism. We may have gifts too, but disability remains the basis for diagnosis. Some autistic people are rendered non-speaking by their condition, and I can’t imagine who would celebrate that. Others live with significant medical compilations like epilepsy. I’ve yet to meet anyone who celebrates that either.
At the same time, there is a growing body of evidence that autistic brain differences have facilitated some of mankind’s great accomplishments in music, engineering, science, theology and the arts. The achievements are certainly worthy of admiration, but are the autism differences that facilitated them cause for celebration? I guess that’s a matter of opinion.
I think neurological diversity is something to celebrate because different people do different things. Ten typical people struggled to push a cart with skids, until an autistic guy showed them a wheel. Without difference, our species would have come to an end long ago. It’s diversity that gives us the species ability to cope with an ever-shifting world.
They say Newton was autistic, and his calculus is part of the foundation of the modern technical world. Do we celebrate the tool, or the different mind it came from? In today’s world the creator of Pokémon says he’s on the spectrum. Do we celebrate that, or his accomplishment? All around you, there are autistic people with exceptional skills and talents. At the same time, there are autistic people crippled or limited by their autism. It’s hard to reconcile the dichotomy of that.
I think autistic people – as a group - are worthy of celebration. In American society we set aside periods for celebration of all sorts of people – women, African Americans, cancer survivors, and more. Autistics are just as deserving of celebration as any other group, and in some ways more so because of our persistence in the face of marginalization and mistreatment. And because we’ve brought society many cool things.
But I personally don’t see this month as a time of celebration. I see it as a time when autism is in the news, and in the public mind, and as a result, we build awareness and acceptance in the general public.
We hope a more aware public will treat us better, and provide more assistance and accommodation. A more aware public might understand why we behave differently and respond more appropriately in many situations. Readers of my books have told me that, and I’ve heard the same said to other autistic authors.
That’s a good thing. The only downside to that kind of awareness is when autism is depicted in an unrealistic way – as devoid of disability – because that makes an ignorant public think we don’t need supports and services, when in fact we do. That’s a sad truth about our society. The more eloquently a person is able to articulate their needs, the less support they are deemed to need. We must always be conscious of that, when we talk about autism.
What about autism acceptance? That’s the thing many autistic self-advocates focus on this month. If you believe autism has been part of humanity forever then acceptance is the only point of view that makes sense. If you believe in the value of human diversity, autism is as much a part of that as red hair. You may like parts of it, and you may hate parts of it, but it’s here to stay and you best accept that.
Always remember that accepting autistic people does not equal accepting autistic suffering or disability. Many fine people devote their lives to relieving suffering in our population, whether through addressing medical issues like intestinal distress or by helping us make friends or find jobs. That work is an admirable accompaniment to acceptance.
To do anything but accept, embrace, and support autistic people is simply mean. It’s wrong. We did not ask to be how we are. You may see us as different, but from our perspective, it’s the typical population who’s different. Every human has that right to acceptance, and we are no exception. We bring great gifts to humanity by being here, and there’s a cost to have us. Just as there’s a cost for every other human on the planet.
So what would I ask for this month? Volunteering at a local autism program can truly change lives. Get involved in research as a volunteer or advisor. Stand up for autistic people in government. Studies have shown that 100 dedicated people at the state house can absolutely move the positions of legislators. Make friends with autistic people, and cultivate the relationships you already have. There are a million things you can do that truly make a difference.
Make life better for autistic people. Call that celebration, call it advocacy, but do something real. That’s my best wish and advice for this April, whatever you want to call it.
John Elder Robison